None of you plan for this to happen...

I finished coaching at 4.30 pm and had a late lunch yesterday. Then went back home. Rested a bit, swept and vacuum the floor and clean the living room and dinning room's ceiling fans. After that did some work on the laptop. Curriculum plans, Work in progress.

Managed to catch "Private Practice" which is one of my wife's favourite, on the telly. There were several issues presented on tonight's show. Betrayal, "open and shut down", abortion, miracle and assisted death and last but not least "none of you plan for this to happen."

None of u planned for this to happen was about a pregnant woman who got involved in a car accident and was rushed to the clinic comatosed. The doctors wanted to perform a caesarean on her to deliver the baby. Unfortunately, the fiancé refused to let the doctors to do it hoping for a miracle that his fiancée would wake up soon and they could get married as planned.

The fiancé blames himself for the accident and burdens himself with guilt. The doctor advice him not to blame himself and that it was not his fault. She said that she understood that it was not what they had planned to do. She told him that she knows that it was not what they had planned. She also made him realised that the miracle he was hoping was actually inside the fiancee's womb - their unborn baby.

Hence the tile "None of you planned for this to happen". In our lives and in my life, we never planned for things to happen but they did. A lot of times we did not realised it or cannot imagined that it would happened. So what do we do? We could fret and fret about it and don't do anything about it. Or we could learn from it and move on.

Some of the things that happened in my life I have wished not to have happened but they did. Like my short lived employment with Malaysian Sports Council. And some of the things that I want to happen never did like winning a lottery ticket hahaha. Some of the things that happened were memorable incidents like how I met my wife. That is a story to be told in private. Some of the things that happened have had a major impact in my life like the birth of my 2 wonderful sons. I have tried to dealt with it and learn from it and then move on. Sometimes there was nothing I could do except wait until things get settled down I can deal with it. I would be anxious and worried sick about it but I would try to look for a solution in the meantime.

Well...enough serious talk for now. Bye.